for those who use eBay more than i do -

[fox]

So I won this ebay auction on September 27. Clicked through and paid by PayPal on the 28th. I have heard nothing, not one peep, from the seller; a week or so ago (I guess) I sent a message through ebay's "contact the seller" feature, and got no response, and today I did so again, and so far have heard nothing. I had ebay send me the direct contact information, so the seller now has mine as well; at what point do I call and say "So nu?" before initiating some sort of Item Not Received complaint? (The listing said the item would be shipped within two days of receiving payment, and the seller is in Waldorf, which isn't that far away - plus I've had no notification of shipping or anything like that.)

I'm not going to call until I get to my phone this afternoon when I get back to the car, and see if he called there (since that's the number I listed), but I'm not optimistic. Advice please?